Akurie,
Discretion is always used when filling a role for leadership purposes.
It concerns me that you are touting a way of gaming that promotes hatred, and aggression. This fleet is based off of inclusion and acceptance. The bulk of the GLBTQA community has endured these types of social injustices for too long. We should not be so chalant with regards to these type of things in the real world, let alone a game. And certainly not because you believe this to be "the way it is". This is just one more reason that the Stonewall Fleet is so important. We do not put emphasis on the one, but on the group or the whole. The general advancement of all of us is more significant.
These "Core MMO" players are usually not a good fit for our community. I myself, along with many other members of Stonewall Fleet are not apart of that mindset. I am not a big gamer in general and have only played a handful of games. The games I have played in the past were not nearly as long or as much as I play STO. I come here to play with my friends, and have fun being immersed in the Trek Universe (which we all love and cherish). I enjoy chatting, and Roleplaying, and just having fun with my characters, ships, boffs, and doffs.
As you point out, the core MMO players typically aren't interested in those types of things, and that is just fine. They are welcome to join, but probably wont find exactly what they are looking for out of a guild/fleet here. I do know we have some of these types of players in the fleet, and we love every one of them. But I find that they often play with others outside of the Stonewall community. Again, this is just A-OK with us.
As far as accomplishing little, I am curious to know what you are referring to? I feel that this fleet has accomplished so much more than could ever have been hoped when it was founded over 3 years ago. We have built up an amazing online social network of people from around the world, and all co-mingle across 3 (soon to be 4) different games to play and have fun with one another. What more is there to accomplish than this?
With regards to being a Fleet Captain, experience is not the sole trait we are looking for in a leadership position. To that end leadership by example and character are the key factors. We do not promote based on "time served". We promote those that have taken it upon themselves to be helpful, and supportive of fellow fleet members. Those individuals are also asked to make a commitment to fulfill additional administrative tasks that assist in the running of the fleet. As a previous guild leader you are fully aware of the extra time, energy and sacrifice it takes to fill a position like this.
Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts with us! :)