Kevin

Medart

Re: My rant on fleet interactions (you've been warned)

June 22 2012
What's your IGN? I think I might have been a part of the group that "ignored" you. If so, I am terribly sorry. I was probably in the middle of some daily missions or STFs that had my concentration and I wasn't really looking at the chat.

Unknown Person

Re: Funny or Stupid?

June 22 2012
:lol: Very funny!
Nova

Nova

Re: My rant on fleet interactions (you've been warned)

June 21 2012
If I suspect that's the case, I simply state it out loud and let them tell me what kind of people they are. It usually plays out like this:


ME: (noob question)
THEM: (unhelpful response that may or may not be snarky)
ME: Apologies, but I am new, so this is a sincere question. Could I trouble you for a straight answer? Cheers.
THEM: (the answer that determines what I think of their character for the rest of time)
ME: Thank you for your time.


It's a simple script and it sorts the regular people from the "MMO leet" pretty quickly.
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Bradley Barbour

bradley1701

Re: My rant on fleet interactions (you've been warned)

June 21 2012
I am sorry to hear that your asking for help was answered with such disregard. The world is made up of all sorts of people and Stonewall is certainly just as diverse. Your post is a reminder to all fleeties of the importance of using caution with "tone" and "personality" in fleet chat.

There have been a few posts lately with various concerns of things said in fleet chat and to varying degrees. These posts should remind all of us that we are part of a largely diverse and inclusive group and that we all don't have the same sense of humour or understanding of personalities. Often, things said in fleet chat with sarcasm or joking could be misunderstood, especially with unfamiliar fleeties. When in doubt, always mind your manners and be as respectful as possible.
Edited June 21 2012 by bradley1701
Rai

Rai

My rant on fleet interactions (you've been warned)

June 21 2012
I asked last night if someone would be willing to teach me any elite STF, and got a response or as they say in chat "Sassy" response correcting an error in my spelling of "elite" and then making it sound like they are doing me a favor by saying they were about to log off for the night. I just left the fleet chat and tried to teach myself.

I know it was all in good fun, and it may not be what they were trying to convey. But, what was perceived by being "Sassy" to someone you never interacted with before didn't sit well with me. In the tone it was said in this instance, it set a tone of elitism and that they didn't really care. This is NOT the way you try to teach someone who is genuinely asking for help. It will make them less receptive to your advice. Period. I know I was.

That may just this persons personality, and I'm not saying to "Not be yourself" But please keep in mind to be receptive and humble when someone is being genuine or asking for help who is not use to the "Norm" of what the fleet yet. It has the chance to come off wrong and leave a bad impression. Now I'm not saying to "kiss their butt". I'm just saying if it sounds like they are asking or saying something serious/genuine, lend them an ear. Joke and play all you want, but hear them out when needed.

What if English wasn't my first language? What if I'm a new fleet member and this was my very first interaction? What if I was new to the fleet and every time I asked a question, I got ignored as people continued their conversation. (Which has happened and I have seen happen)

I've been in the fleet for a long time (Just returned from a long hiatus) But, I know I would second guess if this was the fleet for me. I would feel alone and separated in a fleet that I though I was a part of, people I thought shared a common ground by being part of the LGBT community. Even saying "I don't know." would be something. At least the question would be acknowledged. We are a fleet, we are a family. There is no "Us and them" within our fleet, just "Us". We want the fleet to grow and get stronger, there is a lot of room in that fleet starbase to fill.

This may seem like a "do nothing" rant, but, I think it is important to keep in mind.
anyways /rant
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Kidd Kasper

kiddkasper

Re: Funny or Stupid?

June 21 2012
HAHAHAHA... soooo true.
Dave (Voleron)

Voleron

Re: Funny or Stupid?

June 21 2012
Ha, that was good - I had a chuckle :)

Elliot

followmehome

Aussies on SWTOR

June 21 2012
It appears that whenever I'm online there is hardly ever anyone else online in the Guild. I know it might be because everyone is still transferring but I just wanted to ask...
Are there any other Aussies here who play SWTOR? If you know any and they don't use the forums very often, please let me know! :(

Thanks,
Lonely

Funny or Stupid?

June 21 2012
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Edited June 21 2012 by nicholasjohn16
Gavin

Silver101uk

Re: Should the guild switch servers?

June 21 2012
lost 3 of my toon names but managed to keep my legacy name i'll be about on star wars too so keep trying occasionly you find someone that can invite u

Unknown Person

Re: Star Trek: The Journey

June 21 2012
[=]


Episode 647 - Enterprise - "Dear Doctor" - 01/23/2002

http://www.allstepisodes.com/megvid.php?n=5113

Phlox & Archer must decide where their morals lie about letting a species live or die from a pandemic.

[=]


Episode 648 - Enterprise - "Sleeping Dogs" - 01/30/2002

http://www.allstepisodes.com/megvid.php?n=5114

Hoshi, Malcolm and T'Pol board an unresponsive Klingon ship on decaying orbit into the crushing pressures of a gas giant.


Enjoy!
Nova

Nova

Re: STF space elite tutorials

June 21 2012
My Tac just dinged fifty. I'm totally down for learning this thing.
Linda Layne

Ltervlet

Re: Should the guild switch servers?

June 21 2012
Hi Jason, I am sorry you're having such difficulty. I was on for about 15 hours Monday into Tuesday. If you continue having difficulty getting an invite,please send me "ltervlet" a PM (you can click on the talk-bubble under my avatar in any of my posts) and let me know when you are usually playing. I will log on at the same time to try to get you an invite ASAP. Glad you decided to transfer with us!
Linda Layne

Ltervlet

Re: Lost Knight returns?

June 21 2012
Hi Liastnir, The only reason you would have been removed from the guild is because of inactivity. There is a 60 day limit on inactivity but I usually waited until the inactivity exceeded 70+ days to give everyone a chance.

I have left one of my toons in each guild on The Jekk'Jekk Tarr server in case anyone needs assistance with transferring or something still needs to be taken care of on that server but after the majority of our members are transferred I will be transferring my remaining toons to The Harbinger as well.

Knights of Stonewall and Lords of Stonewall are up an running on The Harbinger server. We have several Captains that have invite capability but if you /cjoin KOS (or /cjoin LOS for the Lords of Stonewall) and have no luck when requesting a guild invite in that channel please post here again or send me a PM here on the website with the times you usually log on and I will log on at that time as well to extend you an invite. See you on the other side! :)
Edited June 21 2012 by Ltervlet
Lilith Von Fraumench

lilithvf1998

Re: STF space elite tutorials

June 21 2012
Quite interested, please! :)
Lilith Von Fraumench

lilithvf1998

Re: Star Trek and Transgenderism

June 21 2012
Thanks, everyone, for their feedback on this matter. After much thought on the matter, I decided I should make my STO character openly transgender, and tried to come up with a backstory that might help explain why transgenderism isn't quite so visible in the Star Trek universe. To that end I've written a speech my character could've given upon graduation from the Academy, although I'm not yet sure why she would give such a speech. I'm not quite so arrogant as to presume my character was the class valedictorian, after all. ;)

At any rate, this is a very early draft, so comments and critique are welcome.

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In 2385, my parents received a diplomatic assignment to Earth, and we moved to Seattle, close to my grandfather Jace. I was terrified of the change, as up to that point all I had known was Betazed. But the moment I met my Grandpa Jace I fell in love with him, and I didn't want to leave his side. I remember browsing Grandpa Jace's library which included a number of novels written in the 20th Century in the curious genre known as "science fiction." These novels puzzled and unsettled me. Some presumed there was no other sentient life known, but humanity--and the notion chilled me. But almost all of them were fairly unscientific on some level. Although most of the authors demonstrated a basic understanding of scientific principles, eventually the authors would introduce some made-up conceit, and often that conceit would prove vital to the storyline. Grandpa Jace finally explained it to me in a way that cleared up all my concerns and gave me fresh appreciation for the books. "They're not really about sceince," he said in his gentle yet deep voice. "They're about human beings. They're about how we'd think and act if things were different. You could say they're thought experiments for the human condition. The only reason why science fiction is no longer popular is because science fact these days change us faster than authors can keep up."

I think it was that insight of his, coupled with my affection for him, which led me to trust him with a secret that, today and for now on, will never be secret again. You see, my fellow classmates, I was declared a boy at birth. On Betazed transsexuality is very rare for reasons that I still can't quite explain, even after trying to find an answer for much of my life. But other species, including humans, have transgender behavior to one degree or another. Perhaps it's my partially human heritage that accounts for this. But the few times that I tried to tell my parents that I thought I was really a girl, they would tell me that I was plainly mistaken--although with much unease on their part. Grandpa Jace was different. His best friend, I found out, was declared a girl at birth but proved to be a boy. He also told me that Earth medical technology could help me grow up to be a woman. He introduced me to his friend, and he helped me understand myself and to come to peace with my understanding. But still, I hid all this as well as I could from my parents, certain they would not understand.

Then puberty began, and with it, my paracortex developed--and between the distress of testosterone and my unmastered telepathy, I lost my ability to keep my true self a secret. My parents reacted harshly at first. After all, my family includes members of the Fifth House, and parents worried that the news would somehow compromise the Fifth House itself, bringing strife to a typically peaceful society. But Grandpa Jace apparently knew members of the Fifth House, and had one of them, Ambassador Lwaxana Troi, intervene. Ambassador Troi endorsed Grandpa Jace's plan to have me undergo surgery. But there was a caveat: My family and I were to remain on Earth until I had matured enough that the average Betazoid, without any aforehand knowledge of my past, would not know I was transsexual. I'm honestly not sure whether I cried harder than my parents, but in the end it was a sacrifice I had to make.

I was renamed Kestra, a name suggested by Ambassador Troi, after her departed daughter. She once told me her daughter had been guided by the Fates to be reborn as me, so similar was my personality to her daughter's. In honor of her help, and as a reflection of my destiny on Earth, I took on her first name as my middle name. I had a fairly conventional girlhood after that, only slightly complicated by my resistance to courtship by boys. I continued to spend as much time as I could spare with my Grandpa Jace, reading his library, especially his "thought experiments for the human condition," and as a side-effect, developing my interest in sociology and in space exploration. It was inevitable, then, that I'd enlist in Starfleet. But I credit my beloved parents, Ashiel and Tommatiel Litalto, my grandfather, Jace McPhearson, and of course the Daughter of the Fifth House, Ambassador Troi, for giving me what I needed to make it this far. I thank my mentor, Admiral Riker, for helping me through his Human insight on Betazoids. I thank my instructors, who were as patient and gentle yet as strict as my own parents. And, not least of all, I thank you, my classmates, for inspiring me to push myself towards excellence, for being my friends, and I hope, for being there with me in the future as we all boldly go where no one has gone before. Thank you.

Unknown Person

Re: Should the guild switch servers?

June 20 2012
I transferred both my Imp and Rep mains two nights ago. I had to change the spelling of my Sith Sorcerer slightly which is no big but I was really stoked because I had to change my Legacy name and the Legacy name I had originally wanted at launch but was taken was available on Harbinger yay! So I changed it from what I'd settled on (Stormbinder) to (Stormbraker).

I got added to LoS right away when I joined the channel but I haven't been able to get an invite to KoS yet for my Rep main, Jacian. The last two nights around 7pm PDT I've been on asking in KoS and haven't received any responses or seen anyone else chatting. Is it just bad timing? I have 3 more Imp toons to move over and unfortunately all their names are taken dag nabbit!
Kyle

QiqJoe

Re: Should the guild switch servers?

June 20 2012
Quote by Elikal
Grrr, ok, I am more than slightly pissed. I had to rename 7 of my 8 characaters. I had extra preordered and played from DAY ONE to make sure I get the names I have for YEARS in MMOs.

Not funny.


Sorry to hear that. :( I was worried about that, too. I wish MMOs would take lessons from others about naming. Personally I liked the way STO did it: name it whatever you like, but associate it with your screenname.
Joe Tran

badsaint

Re: For Anyone who Needs to Brush Up on GW2 Lore

June 20 2012
Quote by Jax
For anyone that hasn't played GW1, learning the lore will make the GW2 experience more enjoyable. Has anyone read the books? They help bridge the gap from GW1 and GW2 and are informative on the lore also.


I usually don't read books based off a game IP, but I did read the GW books. Loved them, for the most part. Can't wait for the last one. At first I thought the game would release before the last book, but now I'm no so sure lol
Joe Tran

badsaint

Re: Forbes article on GW2

June 20 2012
lol Did they mean the release of the release date or the actual release date?

And since ArenaNet is an NCsoft company soon can be a 4-letter word.