Re:Getting to know you.
Such wonderful stories! It brings such joy to my heart knowing there is such a open, honest and worldwide community of LGBTQ folks who are passionate about Star Trek and MMOs.
I'm James. 26 going on 40. I say that because most peoples' first impressions are I'm older than I am. My behavior is generally professional and mature for my age, and thanks to my father's/grandfather's German genes, I'm working on the full Picard hairdo at 26. My mother is Native American and still lives back in Montana, both on and off the reservations depending on how the winds blow. I had a very deep, connected relationship with my father, and one of our favorite past times was watching Star Trek: The Next Generation together. Between the age of 7 and 10, I soaked up every possible Star Trek episode made. It was sadly at this time my father was diagnosed, fought, and ultimately lost his fight to colon cancer. Even though its 16 years later, my love for him and Star Trek are one and the same and both will live on in my heart and memory forever.
My love of MMOs grew from playing with my friends in World of Warcraft. I'm working on my MD/PhD which is the combined medical and graduate school education. Its a very long, difficult but fun career path. Nevertheless, it has taken me from university to university, far from my friends in both Montana and Washington. It was through WoW we kept in touch and enjoyed the online world together. I'm a pretty competitive and comprehensive person when it comes to computer games in general, so it should be no surprise I had a level 80 (max level) of every class (10 classes) in Wow. This dedication took a lot of time and ultimately hurt my relationship with my partner Kyle. I'm taking a break from WoW at the moment and focusing on working though our relationship bumps.
As to my sexuality, I was deep in the closet for most of my life. I consider myself a pretty keen observer of behavior, but as so many in the closet, I was blind to my own needs and identity. Much of this I'm sure was growing up in a pretty conservative home where the script to life was girlfriend then marriage then sex then kids in that order. Oh Christian conservatism, how blind we are to our own failings as a doctrine. Nevertheless, I decided when I went away from home to college at Washington State University that I knew I wasn't straight and should explore my options. As things go, I had one of those tragic glitz-crag coming out stories where I felt I needed to tell my family before I was emotionally ready. I have no doubt in my heart my family loves me, but our relationship has obviously changed. Even after seven years, I watch them struggle with who I am and how that affects them, just as I struggled seven years ago. I found my current partner Kyle when I was a junior in college (2003) and we've been together ever since. We have a dog (Daisy) and cat (Neela) whom we both love. We currently live near Chapel Hill, North Carolina where I attend school for the MD/PhD.
Thank you to each of you for sharing your stories. I look forward to meeting so many of you in Star Trek Online at Tpox, Vulcan medical captain of the science ship USS Caduceus.
I'm James. 26 going on 40. I say that because most peoples' first impressions are I'm older than I am. My behavior is generally professional and mature for my age, and thanks to my father's/grandfather's German genes, I'm working on the full Picard hairdo at 26. My mother is Native American and still lives back in Montana, both on and off the reservations depending on how the winds blow. I had a very deep, connected relationship with my father, and one of our favorite past times was watching Star Trek: The Next Generation together. Between the age of 7 and 10, I soaked up every possible Star Trek episode made. It was sadly at this time my father was diagnosed, fought, and ultimately lost his fight to colon cancer. Even though its 16 years later, my love for him and Star Trek are one and the same and both will live on in my heart and memory forever.
My love of MMOs grew from playing with my friends in World of Warcraft. I'm working on my MD/PhD which is the combined medical and graduate school education. Its a very long, difficult but fun career path. Nevertheless, it has taken me from university to university, far from my friends in both Montana and Washington. It was through WoW we kept in touch and enjoyed the online world together. I'm a pretty competitive and comprehensive person when it comes to computer games in general, so it should be no surprise I had a level 80 (max level) of every class (10 classes) in Wow. This dedication took a lot of time and ultimately hurt my relationship with my partner Kyle. I'm taking a break from WoW at the moment and focusing on working though our relationship bumps.
As to my sexuality, I was deep in the closet for most of my life. I consider myself a pretty keen observer of behavior, but as so many in the closet, I was blind to my own needs and identity. Much of this I'm sure was growing up in a pretty conservative home where the script to life was girlfriend then marriage then sex then kids in that order. Oh Christian conservatism, how blind we are to our own failings as a doctrine. Nevertheless, I decided when I went away from home to college at Washington State University that I knew I wasn't straight and should explore my options. As things go, I had one of those tragic glitz-crag coming out stories where I felt I needed to tell my family before I was emotionally ready. I have no doubt in my heart my family loves me, but our relationship has obviously changed. Even after seven years, I watch them struggle with who I am and how that affects them, just as I struggled seven years ago. I found my current partner Kyle when I was a junior in college (2003) and we've been together ever since. We have a dog (Daisy) and cat (Neela) whom we both love. We currently live near Chapel Hill, North Carolina where I attend school for the MD/PhD.
Thank you to each of you for sharing your stories. I look forward to meeting so many of you in Star Trek Online at Tpox, Vulcan medical captain of the science ship USS Caduceus.