This is truly sad and unfortunate. It becomes a very heteronormative affair, whether it means to or not. And whether intended or not, it comes across, to me, as saying that this MMO is only available to heterosexual folks. When we throw sexuality into a game, especially with options, we are making a statement about what the world/mmo is saying to some degree. So it comes off poorly for me, as a person that was really looking forward to making a character that I wanted, like a dude rogue that could flirt his way around the galaxy, alien, male, and female alike. It hampers my enjoyment to a margin and all the above just makes me have difficulty overlooking.
Enough that, unfortunately, I'll be canceling my preorder.