It's bad when they say "LGBT" when they mean "cis gay". It's erasure, plain and simple. And again, it happens all the time. An author will mention LGBT, even take the time to spell out what it means, and then the rest of the article will discuss issues that *only* impact gays and lesbians. It's such a regular occurrence that it becomes frustrating to read articles from most mainstream gay/lesbian activists.
Am I "doing the same thing Thatchell [sic] did" if I point out that Tatchell is hardly alone in doing so, as I had? Is it wrong of me to point out that Tatchell does this regularly, such as
here, where he mentions "transgender" at the beginning of an article about post-homophobic sexuality--a topic that is at best only incidentally connected to anything transgender?
And again, I'm discussing a systemic issue, not one necessarily aimed at Tatchell alone. In this case he is merely an example arising from the fact he was quoted in the first place.
As for the example, I fully recognize the issues are different, but my point was about erasure. It happened in another forum's thread on race, where it quickly devolved into whether it was ever OK to say the n-word, as if that was the only racial issue involved, as if African-Americans were the only ones to experience racism....
When I need to discuss transgender issues, I speak about transgender issues. When I need to discuss gay/lesbian issues, I speak about gay/lesbian issues. When I talk about bisexual/pansexual/polysexual issues, I talk about those issues from that point of view. It's only when discussing an issue that impacts ALL of us that I'll talk about LGBT issues. There is plenty common ground there--AIDS impacts us all here, violence impacts us all here, discrimination impacts us all here. But it still remains useful--and important--to distinguish how each impacts our community differently depending on what part of the community we're in. That's the part that disappears when "LGBT" is used carelessly as a synonym for "gay". And that is what I'm talking about.