Re: [Event] Return to Defera

February 16 2013
Don't miss our first run, today at 12:00 PM EST!
Cheshire McCaster

Niko

Re: A Rant, or talk, or something.

February 16 2013
thank you everyone for the replies and support. HUGS!!!

Unknown Person

Re: The Kumari Escort

February 16 2013
I wonder if it will have an interrogation room... there are some people I'd like to talk to... no questions
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Angel

Angelsilhouette

Re: Catholic Pope Benedict XVI Resigns

February 16 2013
Quote by Narciso
See? God does answer prayers.


That's funneh rat thur, I'on't curr who ya are, that's funneh.

:3
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Volkrov (Eurrsk) Ruk

Eurrsk

Re: A Rant, or talk, or something.

February 16 2013
*hugs*
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Whittier Strong

SiranNataan

Re: A Rant, or talk, or something.

February 16 2013
Unfortunately, you are going to get a lot of pushback from gays and lesbians. The oppressed become the oppressors. Climb over them to the folks who are going to support you.

I know you're stuck out in Bootlick Nowhere. I've been there too. The only support I could find was online--and it saved my life. I'd look for whatever transgender/genderqueer support programmes online that you can. Discover that you're not alone.

And if you can get out of Bootlick Nowhere, to a place where you can breathe and exist, do so at your earliest opportunity. That saved my life, too.

You're in my thoughts, and I will think on this some more.

And if you ever just want someone to listen, hit me up in-game or drop me a message on here.

Peace
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Volkrov (Eurrsk) Ruk

Eurrsk

Re: The Kumari Escort

February 16 2013
*squee* My andorian alt will be happy! :D :D :D
Heli

Narciso

Re: Catholic Pope Benedict XVI Resigns

February 16 2013
As a Roman Catholic, all I have to say to this is...

AMEN!!!!

See? God does answer prayers.
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Heli

Narciso

Re: The Kumari Escort

February 16 2013
hahahaha, oh Jacien you get me every time XDD

I honestly hope this ship is easily obtained lol
Volkrov (Eurrsk) Ruk

Eurrsk

Re: January-February edition of the Stonewall Times

February 16 2013
OMG Alimac, this was wonderful! Lots of great content! Great to see stuff from other games too! :D

I really appreciate the time and effort you put into these! Glad to see so many contribute! ^^

Also thanks for featuring my mission hehe! And also thanks to Voleron for the awesome review! *hugs*

Nice picture with Behr btw! DS9 rocks! :D
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Re: A Rant, or talk, or something.

February 16 2013
Unfortunately, a lot of people, even within the glbt community, don't understand the differences between transgenders, cross dressers, transvestites or drag queens. This often leads to misunderstandings, prejudices or worse. They also don't know the pains of going through a transition. Its unfortunate that they don't understand what you're going through, but that's not your fault. I'm lucky enough to have known several transgenders and have them as friends. They've educated me and shown me how life is different for transpeople.

There was a time not too long ago where gender roles where much stricter than than they are now; when men worked and women raised the kids, men wore the pants and women wore skirts and dresses. Luckily, we've progressed past that point and its okay for men to cry and women to cut their hair short. I think one of the best parts of being part of the glbt community is being able to find the happy medium between gender roles that we're comfortable with. That as a man, I'm not bound by what society thinks of how I should act or behave, so no I don't think its weird at all for you to try to find your own place too. The most important thing is for you to be comfortable with yourself.

I hope that answers your question.
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Edited February 16 2013 by nicholasjohn16
Ferret

FreakyFerret

Re: A Rant, or talk, or something.

February 16 2013
Hi Niko,

I don't have much practical advice for you on this. I did want to post though and let you know you have the support and understanding of at least one person. :)


As for how other gays view you, take it like you take straight people viewing you. It's their bias and their own shortcomings that is causing the conflict there. Not you. There is nothing wrong with you. You are right. I want to say that again. You are right.

You may not be like all the other people around you, but as a Gay Pagan, I can tell you that is okay. As long as you are true to yourself and how you feel and what makes you happy, you are doing the right thing.


I wish you well and great happiness in whichever destiny you find yourself. :)
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Denis

SBOSlayer

Re: Hazard Team Proposal; Sorry for the delay... Will start on the 14th of Feb

February 16 2013
I'm working on it :P Details tonight ;)
Cheshire McCaster

Niko

A Rant, or talk, or something.

February 16 2013
Trials and tribulations, I found it was hard when I first talked to my mother many years ago about dating men. My step father at the time blamed me for the end of their marriage. Good man just well very far behind the times in social progress. So in those years since then there has been little support, only from a few friends and a lot of nervous jokes from others.

Though I did get a lot of "That guy is just wrong for you you know that right." From friends who where not the most comfortable with me being well me. Though in all that time and mostly from a healthy fear of the area I live in (Repressed Red Neck hell where they sooner beat you up then talk to you) I have chosen to go forward with a goal of mine since I was young very very young. It just was never in the cards at the time. Upbringing of the oldest child, example of the family and all that bull.

(okay a little winded to get to a point.) I simply have always known that I am more of a woman than a man. But not a full woman. My shrink had a migraine once when I first talked to her about this years ago. Though county shrinks really only pushed mood altering pills. Least back then. Not so sure about these days. But this lead to a new issue. Working the process to transition between genders, but maintain a semblance of both has isolated me lately among many of my gay friends. And this is what I want to breach in conversation. I have noticed that among many gays and lesbians their is a bias against transgenders. And working to understand this has been a bit of a headache. And I feel where I stand right now wanting to maintain a balance of both genders will generate more hmm stress for me among my friends and family. Is it a wrong idea to seek a balance in the body but identify as female least in spirit and action even if the body does not wholly fit? (not to mention the full trans surgery scares the living daylights out of me.) So asking for creative discussion If this topic fits here.

Thank you For taking the time to read over this and if so respond.

Joye.
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Unknown Person

Re: The Kumari Escort

February 16 2013
Quote by WhiteOnmyoji
This was in the ask cryptic...

Q: (whamhammer1) If it is true that the game’s space combat engine cannot handle more than four weapons per side (front/rear)…

Dstahl: Let me stop you right there. We have a ship coming that breaks this rule, so it is not true.

*Faints*


Good Rodenberry almighty...
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GeoM68

GeoM68

Re: Hazard Team Proposal; Sorry for the delay... Will start on the 14th of Feb

February 16 2013
:) Im ready to go *waits for more info* :)
Isaac Burrough

MrIzzy

Re: The Kumari Escort

February 16 2013
Well according to memory alpha, it did have 5 pulse cannons...
Ben

Gravity

Re: The Kumari Escort

February 16 2013
ooooooooh
Tsar Agus

WhiteOnmyoji

Re: The Kumari Escort

February 16 2013
This was in the ask cryptic...

Q: (whamhammer1) If it is true that the game’s space combat engine cannot handle more than four weapons per side (front/rear)…

Dstahl: Let me stop you right there. We have a ship coming that breaks this rule, so it is not true.

*Faints*